Men are not trash but “Mentalities” are
Men
are not trash
Women
are not crazy
Everyone
is spoilt
Everyone
is slipshod
Everyone
needs healing
Everyone
needs love
But
they don’t know
How
to get heal
And
how to get love
No
one has all the answers
Be
the loveliest light
That
gives others hope in life
In
today’s context I read, I heard all the time that all men are trash. Today in
our country women are not safe because of some shitty people. Little flowers are
plucked before they grow. Many young tycoons of business were killed by some
eccentric millionaires. Girls are not safe on roads, on malls, and even in their
graves. Sometimes it happens because of the girl who is the victim but most of
the time it happens because of the sick mentality of the murderer and rapist.
Instead
of all these events I can surely say that men are not trash but it is their mindset that how they get fosterage? How their family bring them
up? What kind of mentality do they possess?
What is the impact of education on them? All these things are important.
Islam says: Men are the protectors of women who are
righteous in belief. Allah ordered Men to protect women whether she is his
family member or not and Muslim men will surely do this.
!“Men shall take full care of women with the bounties Allah has
bestowed on them, and what they may spend out of their possession; as Allah has
eschewed each with certain qualities in relation to the other! And the
righteous women are the truly devout ones, who guard the intimacy which Allah
has ordained to be guarded”
Today the major cause of these crises is the lack ness and
carelessness on both sides of the coin. In an Islamic state where women are
ordered to cover themselves with a veil so that they can be recognized as a
Muslim Lady and be protected from the evil eyes.
Their men are also ordered to put down his Gaze. But
today both are going against it Women used to wear western dresses and these play
the role of an open flower to bees and houseflies everyone starts admiring
their beauty and they love it then one day some dragonfly comes and Suck all
his nectar and then we say men are trash but the women are also responsible for
it.
But when a little flower is plucked just to calm their
desire for sensual pleasure it is painful because it is the mentality of that
animal that does such things that man is trash and his mentality is worth
killing. But don’t blame all others.
I can’t say all men are trash because my father my
brothers are also men but they have the moral values they know how to
protect women from evil eyes. How to keep their daughters, wives, and sisters
safe. From starting I heard a proverb
All bread is not baked
in one oven
And this proverb is enough I think to explain that our
five fingers are not equal and they can’t be. As like them, all men are not the same
but one bad alligator in a pond destroys or demolishes all other fishes living in
that pond. Just like them one murderer and rapist obliterate the repute and
image of every other man in the community. One bad woman destroys the image of the whole women community. So don’t judge all the races on the basis of one shitty
person.
In the end, I must say if our community starts following
the rules and commands are given by Allah Almighty many evils will surely come to
an end and we will lead a peaceful life.
P.S: This article is not against any community.
well we need to teach our kids how to respect every gender
ReplyDeleteIrrespective of gender it's beautifully elobrated.everyone must understand that gender identity is important for both men and woman normalise respecting each other, men should understand that you are protecter of woman.
ReplyDeleteRespect should be for every gender. Completely agreed with each and every word
ReplyDeleteAgreed we cant say every man is trash coz some are but not all
ReplyDeletethumbs up 👍🏻
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