Forgiveness...

                                                      Forgiveness...

Let forgive others just for the sake of your Assuredness...

Forgiveness in literal meaning is the act of excusing a mistake or offense. We all are human beings and I think all of us are get offended or wronged by someone. Many in our lives hurt us so badly that whenever we try to move on in our lives the grudge on them or the Slash given by them will never allow us to move on because we don’t want to forget them just by forgiving them instead we love to give them the unwanted importance in our lives by hating and remembering them.

I read somewhere: “Don’t give unwanted importance to people in your life by hating them rather make them embarrassed just by forgiving them”

Forgiving others is the best trait in a person ever because only a few of us have the temperament to forgive others. Many of us like to keep grudges and animosity and for them, it is the best hobby and in their grudge, they hurt many others without any reason. They are not only hurting themselves but in fact, they are injuring others just in their feeling of taking revenge.

Don’t you think childhood time is the best time ever when you even don’t know the meaning of Revenge...? Only a little sorry heals all your wounds and you feel calm. When a simple handshake or hug resolves all the misunderstandings. When you don’t know how to keep a grudge and also the meaning of animosity. As we grow some people come into our life they tell us the meaning of all these words, they love to take part in cheap politics at all levels. These fake people will annoy us so badly that we don’t want to forgive them. 

The worst reality of today is that people are less faithful and very good actors...

Our prophet Muhammad (S.A.W) is the best example of a forgiver. He forgives all his enemies even the killer of His Daughter and His uncle... At the time of the conquest of Makah He (S.A.W) announced that they all are forgiven and free to live their lives. When the people of Taif throw stones at Him and make him bleed at that time Our Prophet didn’t execrate instead He (S.A.W.) prayed for their betterment. When Gabriel wanted permission to curse them He (S.A.W) refused him by saying that He (S.A.W) forgave them.

In Quran It is said:  

                                    “Don’t consider someone bad because you don’t know the condition of their heart maybe he is not like that what you are thinking about him Only ALLAH (S.W.T) has the Real knowledge you are incognizant”.

Forgiveness doesn’t mean just to say by words that I forgive you but it is the best meal of your soul to be calm. When someone you love or care about Hurt you let them be by forgiving him And forgiveness will be proved to be the best punishment ever coz it feels him embarrassed that he didn’t do right with you.

I know it’s easy to say or advice that forgives others but hard to forget all the wrong persons of your life. But we need to forget them and forgive them.

It’s only possible when you start considering yourself to be zero as when you born you were zero and when you die you will be zero and have nothing, if you consider yourself to be zero it’ll clear all grudges because no one’s talk will affect you so badly that you have to keep a grudge. No one will have the capability to hurt you then. Everything in your life follows the give and take rule. If you want love than love others, If you want respect then respect others And if you want forgiveness then firstly forgive others for all their wrong deeds and let them live their lives and also enjoy your own life, Nothing would be able to mend the past So don’t be a fool just by clutching the past not letting it go. It will not harm anyone else than you. You’ll be responsible for your obliteration. 

Don’t tangle yourself in the deeds of others just prove to them that it doesn’t matter for you at all. Prove them wrong who thinks that they have the complete right to spoil your life by hurting you, getting you engaged in these bullshits, diverting your focus from your future.

 So my dear let them go by saying that they don’t have the right to devastate your life with their bad memories. You don’t care what they did and what they are going to do. Don’t be a part of this cheap politics. 

Clear your heart mind and soul. Forgive them to move on as your LORD loves your quality of forgiveness.