Equanimity or Tranquility…

                Equanimity or Tranquility… 

Equanimity isn’t just a condition of mind rather it is the basic need of every human in the world and the most precious asset the person ever attained… I often think what calmness is??? How can I achieve the purest form of calmness???

Sometimes I feel helpless in front of the thought that where calmness is???

 We all are seeking calmness in different worldly forms and a few from us will get… Every person in the world thinks that the other one is happy or calm not knowing about their problems, we really don’t think that we are also other for the world…

Rich thinks that the poor are calm and happy because he doesn’t have power or money which is the root of all evils But don’t think that lack of money is supposed to be his biggest problem, on the other hand, the poor think that the rich are happy and calm because he has money or power he can buy happiness and calmness for him but he doesn’t want to think that his money and power is supposed to be his biggest enemy he is fighting with. In reality, no one is happy and calm, neither the rich nor the poor but both think that the other is calm…

 In the Quran, it is quoted that “your children and money is a trial for you “

We all move through some sudden trauma that we lost all our equanimity... Got depressed… couldn’t find solutions to our problems, we become more squiggle, and a stage comes when we become hopeless and all we need is calmness but we didn’t find it anywhere. Every person in the world is struggling hard to find calmness in the world … we get the best solution for it to occupy ourselves in different worldly jobs to forget all the worst times of our lives that never remains calm…

We tried hard to find equanimity firstly in our dear ones in relations but all in vain and we disdain badly, those relations that would supposedly be our greatest strength our calmness rather they proved to be the ulcer of our life. Then we try to seek composure in our friends and we came to know that every person in the world is baffled in their own problems… we want to disappear like complete blackout so that no one would know about us and we think that might be this would make us calm…

 We as humans are the strangest creature of the universe, we never recourse to our creature first instead we used to remember Allah when we get snub, rebuff from the world…

 When we find our self helpless in front of others… and then you know what happens to you Allah Also doesn’t want that you will pray in front of Him. At that time the hardest job is to push your heavy body to prayer mat and prostrate to get a solution to all your problems…

Believe me, you’ll get the best kind of calmness in prayers …

Whenever you get unquiet and queasy just do one thing go to your prayer mat, talk to your lord, share the problem that makes you unquiet and calm less just share it with your lord no matter, how many evildoers you are… after sharing it with your lord just forget about that problem He Has the best plans to solve that issue and you’ll be calm in seconds…