Self Respect or self esteem ...

                          Self Respect or Self-esteem...

You can't force someone to respect you, 
                                                                 But 
                                                                           you can refuse to be disrespected.....

Self Respect is holding yourself in esteem and believing that you are good and worthy of being treated well... it's a feeling of confidence and pride in your own ability and worth... 

 It's the sense of one's own dignity and worth... But it's totally different from ego.

 Ego means to get attached to some wrong name or image. It's the attachment to everything that can be acquired, that can be achieved. The ego will be hurt very easily and mostly it is the basic cause of the different types of clashes.

 On the contrary, Self-esteem is different it's like to recognize your own self your own being... feel your worth, don't be disrespected from others.

 It's all about to think about what you are and what you will be, to think that it doesn't matter that you are not perfect but you'll be supposed to be the best version of yourself. It doesn't matter what others think about you rather it matter how much effort you are putting to give your best... To think that you might not be perfect yet, but you are right whatever you are, give respect to what you are, grateful for what you have, and gradually moving towards perfection day by day, this is self-esteem and this is the thing you must have... 

  You never get hurt when you realized that your own being matters to you a lot not the opinions of others when you really start respecting your self.

when someone thinks that you are the option for them, not the one and only choice then help them to choose the best for them just by removing yourself from their equation. Don't think that what you did for them and how much they mean to you rather think that might be you are nothing to them but an option... it's not pride, it's even not ego, but it's your self-respect which makes you worthy in front of your own self. 

Don't expect any positive change in your life when you don't know how to make yourself happy, How to reduce your negativeness, how to increase your own value, How to respect your self ... when you have low self-esteem then you must agnize that you have nothing, you'll feel insecure, you'll be fear of failures, you'll get depressed and vulnerable to peer pressures.

 On the other hand, high self-esteem will give you the confidence to fight with all your problems not to get depressed instead to face them, you want to try new thing forgetting about the failures and love to take risks... you'll be a goal setter, You'll respect your own self and also others. Always remember never ever lose your self-esteem not get settled with anything less than you deserved. Never get so familiar to your own self when you are alone it will make you arrogant.

 
  Don't give part-time people a full-time position in your life. Know your value never think your self to be meaningless and worthless... 
“Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life, but define yourself.”